Sunday Morning Coffee: Hair

I was at a birthday party last night with some good  friends.  I got to reminiscing with a dear friend who is close to my age. We were talking about how long it used to take us to get ready for church on a Sunday morning.  Mostly it was all about hair.

We’re talking about the early  1970’s.  Hair was getting bigger,  taking us toward the 80s when there was more hair than  you could imagine.


Today, people would do this for a Halloween party 🙂  Everyone had a perm, because lots of curl and lots of body were very important.

It used to take a lot more time back then.  We tortured our hair with teasing, perms, hot rollers, and gallons of hairspray. To be on time for church, you had to give yourself about two hours of lead time. If there were also little kids to feed and dress, you needed even more.

So we were talking about how thankful we are for today’s simpler, low-maintenance styles.


All it takes today is a good cut, some practice with a blow-dryer and a round brush, and you’re done. If you’re fortunate enough to have some natural wave or curl, all you need after you shampoo is some mousse or other styling product. Put it in, let it dry, comb it out, and you’re out the door.

So I was thinking about all this; how styles change over time. Once we thought that big, big hair was the only way to look good. Now we  look back and wondered how we ever thought it was attractive. As my friend and I chatted and laughed, I was watching her face. Here is something that has never changed in the 40+ years we’ve known each other–her kindness, her faithfulness, her thoughtfulness. The years have left their mark on both of us, but our friendship remains unchanged. She and her husband, who is facing some very serious health issues,  have remained our friends through all the changes those years have brought. They’re part of our family.

Friends like that, no matter how other things may change, are a treasure.  A gift from God.

“Make new friends, but keep the old; one is silver, the other is gold.”



Millenial Blessings

Isaiah 19:19-22. “In that day shall there be an altar to the Lord in the midst of the land of Egypt, and a pillar at the border thereof to the Lord. And it shall be for a sign and for a witness unto the Lord of hosts in the land of Egypt: for they shall cry unto the Lord, because of the oppressors, and He shall send them a Saviour, and a Great One, and He shall deliver them. And the Lord shall be known to Egypt, and the Egyptians shall know the Lord in that day, and shall do sacrifice and oblation: yea, they shall vow a vow unto the Lord, and perform it. And the Lord shall smite Egypt: He shall smite and heal it: and they shall return even to the Lord,and He shall be intreated of them, and shall heal them.”

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There are many who see God only through the lenses of His justice and vengeance. They ignore the part about His healing, once a person, a group, or a nation has repented of their sin and turned to Him. He was just as merciful in the Old Testament as He is in the New Testament; God is not the problem.

SIN is the problem!  Feeling free to sin because, you know, God forgives, is just foolish and short-sighted.

If I were a preacher, I’d be hammering this one home. We sin; God judges; we repent; God heals and forgives. OR–we sin, God judges; we get bitter and turn from Him; He allows judgment to continue.  It’s our choice. I see so many people in my work who believe that God is to blame for every difficulty in life. Exactly the opposite is true.

We choose sin, and we pay the consequence.   Remember the old law of physics:  For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.  The same is true of our relationship with God, except that He is more merciful than we deserve.

In That Day

Isaiah 19:16-18. “In that day shall Egypt be like unto women: and it shall be afraid and fear because of the shaking of the hand of the Lord of hosts, which He shaketh over it. And the land of Judah shall be a terror unto Egypt, every one that maketh mention thereof shall be afraid in himself, because of the counsel of the Lord of hosts, which He hath determined against it. In that day shall five cities in the land of Egypt speak the language of Canaan, and swear to the Lord of hosts: one shall be called, The city of destruction.”

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“In that day” is the immediate fall of Egypt as well as its future fall when Christ returns. Judah will become the instrument of judgment. The attitude of Egypt toward Israel would be changed, even to the extent of five Egyptian cities adopting Hebrew, the language of Israel, as its common tongue.  This particular prophecy could be considered to have been fulfilled when Alexander the Great conquered Egypt, and Hellenistic Greek became the common tongue in Canaan and elsewhere and was adopted in Egypt (where the Septuagint Version was produced.

In verse 18, the “city of destruction” or literally Ir-ha-heres, could indicate the destruction of idolatry. That destruction took place after the successive invasions of the Assyrians, Chaldeans, Persians, and Greeks.

In that day also brings us to the coming of the second advent of Christ, when the land of Judah becomes the center of world government and is a terror to those who resist it.

A Perverse Spirit

Isaiah 19:11-15. “Surely the princes of Zoan are fools, the counsel of the wise counsellors of Pharaoh is become brutish: how say ye unto Pharaoh, I am the son of the wise, the son of ancient kings? Where are they? where are thy wise men? and let them tell thee now, and let them know what the Lord of hosts hath purposed upon Egypt. The princes of Zoan are become fools, the princes of Noph are deceived: they have also seduced Egypt, even they that are the stay of the tribes thereof. The Lord hath mingled a perverse spirit in the midst thereof: and they have caused Egypt to err in every work thereof, as a drunken man staggereth in his vomit. Neither shall there be any work for Egypt, which the head or tail, branch or rush, may do.

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Zoan and Noph are two of the most ancient cities in the world. Zoan was a residence of the rulers of ancient Egypt, and where Moses wrought his miracles. These verses are covering both the ancient and the future.  Egypt  has heard the Words of God many times over its long history; they have had many opportunities to turn to God and avoid the dire straits they will be in. However, they have chosen over and over to listen to false prophets; to vain counselors; to foolish men.  The end result is that no one, neither the high and mighty nor the poor and needy, will escape the judgment of God.

No other nation has any cause to look down on Egypt.  All nations who have rejected God will suffer the results of their foolishness.  No one gets to escape.


Tenfold Desolation

Isaiah 19: 5-10. “And the waters shall fail from the sea, and the river shall be wasted and dried up. And they shall turn the rivers far away: and the brooks of defence shall be emptied and dried up: the reeds and flags shall wither. The paper reeds by the brooks, by the mouth of the  brooks, and every thing sown by the brooks, shall wither, be driven  away, and be no more. The fishes also shall mourn, and all they that cast  angle into the brooks shall lament, and they that spread nets upon the waters shall languish. Moreover they that work in fine flax, and they that weave networks, shall be confounded. And they shall be broken in the purposes thereof, all that make sluices and ponds for fish.”

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These verses contain a description of ten ways that Egypt will suffer “in that day.”

  1. Waters shall fail from the sea
  2. Nile will be wasted and dried up
  3.  Rivers shall be diverted
  4. Irrigation shall end
  5. Reeds and flags (grassy plants) shall wither
  6. Papyrus reeds and every other growing thing shall wither
  7. Fishing industry shall end
  8. Flax works will close
  9.  Weaving shall cease
  10.  Fisheries shall close

This is going to be a terrible time for Egypt, as all the traditional trades and means of providing a living will die.  The next few verses will give the reasons for all this trouble.

A Cruel Lord

Isaiah 19: 4-5. “And the spirit of Egypt  shall fail in the midst thereof; and I will destroy the counsel thereof: and they shall seek to the idols, and to the charmers, and to them that have familiar spirits, and to the wizards. And the Egyptians will I give over into the hand of a cruel lord: and a fierce king shall rule over them, saith the Lord, the Lord of hosts.”

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Because of the terrible civil war that will destroy Egypt, most Egyptians will resort to ancient gods, spirits, wizards and enchantments. God has promised that “a fierce king, a cruel lord” will rule them.  That person, of course, is Antichrist. After many centuries of being rule by men, the final ruler of Egypt before Jesus Christ establishes His kingdom will be the most evil, cruel, and ruthless of all.  Under his reign, Egypt will suffer as never before. This reign will be detailed in the next several verses of this chapter.

Sunday Morning Coffee: The Fathers in My Life

My dad.  My husband. Two of my sons. Maybe the third son, one of these days. My son-in-law.  My pastor, who has four sons.  Countless friends down through the years whose children were, appropriately, third:  God first, wife second, then children.


(This is the best picture I have of my dad.  I think he was younger than I am now, somewhere in his early 60’s)

That’s the right order, you know.  I feel sorry for couples who lose sight of that when the first baby arrives and suddenly the spotlight gets shifted to that bundle of energy and never quite gets shifted back to where it belongs. When the children come second, or even first, the marriage is going to be in trouble.

I frequently remind the couples who come to my office that when the kids are all gone, they’re going to be left with each other.  Sometimes they get kind of excited about that.  Other times, one or both will look at me in utter dismay.  They have nothing to talk about but the kids.  Nothing to do but attend the kids’ events. Nothing to plan for but what the kids want, need, or are doing.

That’s bad for the marriage, and believe me, it’s bad for the kids.  And it’s bad for each individual’s relationship to the Lord.

I always knew that my dad put my mom ahead of us kids. Never seemed strange to me.  I also knew that he put God ahead of all of it.  He was a pastor, and sometimes he got called and had to leave during the dinner hour. That was unusual, though, because he made sure the people in the church knew that it was important to us that we all eat together in the evening.

Remember that?

Our family was far from perfect.  There were five of us, all strong-minded and opinionated and willing to speak up–carefully–in a good discussion.  My dad tolerated no disrespect, but he enjoyed it when we could discuss history and politics with him intelligently.  He enjoyed talking about the Bible with us, too.

Some say that women tend to marry men who are like their fathers.  Meh.  In some ways, yes, but  certainly not 100%, any more than I am 100% like Terry’s mother.

So what about the younger men in the family?  Well, I can tell you that they love God, that they love their wives, and that they love their children. We’re not very involved in the day-to-day lives of all of them because of the sheer geographical distance. But we love the rare visits we have, and I can easily see my own kids in their kids.

And I know all my children love their dad. The respect him. They know how hard he worked to provide for all of us. They miss him, those who are so far away. My son-in-law lives nearer, and we see them much more often. He loves his kids so much. There is joy just in watching them interact when he teases, which he does with great enjoyment. He’s a good and godly dad.

Fathers have been given such a great responsibility in God’s Word. They are to be the head of the household, the spiritual leader, as well as the physical provider. It’s a heavy duty, but God gave men broad shoulders so they could carry the load 🙂

I love the men in my life. I’m thankful for each one of them.

And I wish all the rest of you a blessed Father’s Day today.